The appeal is not the danger. Let's be honest about that.
The appeal is the choice. A creature that could end a room deciding, over and over, to be careful with one person in it. Nothing in his nature asks him to be gentle. There is no rule forcing it, no punishment waiting if he slips. He simply decides she is the exception, and then keeps deciding it.
That is a very different fantasy from being rescued. It is the fantasy of being the one thing something terrible refuses to damage.
Here are five books that understand the difference.
The Common Thread
None of these heroes become good men. That is important. They stay dangerous, they stay capable of everything they were capable of on page one, and the world remains right to be afraid of them.
They just draw a line around one person and hold it.
That is the whole fantasy. Not safety: sanctuary, offered by something that had every reason not to.
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